Kylie Nicole Spirit Medium
I have always been connected to Spirit, from earliest glimpse of a memory at about 10 months old, to today. My journey with Spirit has evolved and changed, but it's always there and always precious to me.
My human evolution hasn't been so consistent. I was an “effortless academic” and my love of animals and horse obsession led me towards veterinary studies, but I was in Zimbabwe and the political climate at the time was horrible. They told us the UK ancestry visas would be phased out, so I panicked and jumped ship to England when I was 17. I'd crammed 5 subjects into my AS levels instead of 3 and even taken an exam, which I passed with an A, for a subject I hadn't ever attended a class for, so I cockily thought I'd be able to use these points towards university and get myself educated in the UK. Turns out it didn't happen that way. University was way more expensive than I'd anticipated, and also the UK is nothing like "Pride and Prejudice" - if you didn't know that, you're welcome.
I also realised, around the same time, that chatting to our loved ones who have passed over wasn't considered normal. My true journey started there, I suppose, at the point where I first retreated into myself and didn't want to acknowledge it, and then, with support and guidance, I began again. I kept it quiet mostly, and worked for free or practically for free, and it was horrendous what that lack of boundaries did to my mental health. I would never voluntarily tell anyone I was a medium.
In the meantime, I worked two jobs, sent money home to help the family and bimbled happily, if pointlessly, through life for a year or so. I got into shipping accidentally, turned out that I was good at it and applied myself, and then through a lucky coincidence I found myself running a freight forwarding company when I was just 23.
When we moved to Australia, when I was 27, I had to start again at the bottom, as a shipping clerk for DHL, but within 2 years I found myself on the other side of Australia, heading up a multinational company’s transport and logistics network, implementing software and writing processes which saved that business just under $900 000.00 in the first operational year. I got to the top of my game as the youngest, and only female, national manager at 29 years old, and I suddenly knew at that point, that it was completely and utterly empty for me.
The whole way along I've had amazing people who have supported my spiritual work and pushed me when I didn't want to step up. They've believed in me and advocated for me, and it all aligned eventually that I was going to come back to Perth and do what I had always secretly been doing, my Mediumship, in a full time capacity.
That didn't happen overnight at all. It took me a good year to find my confidence and start up my business around another day job I'd taken up back in Perth -managing WA market for a Logistics software brand, this time.
I had huge, massive money blocks I had to address.
I had issues around confidence and judgement.
I had damaging and untrue limiting beliefs I'd carried with me on my journey for a long time that I needed to work through and make peace with.
I had to practically align all of the stuff I needed to start a business, and also understand how much of that was real, and how much I was using as an excuse or a place holder to procrastinate.
I had to learn how to bring in people I actually wanted to work with.
I had to learn to move past criticism, judgement and ego - both my own, and others’.
I had to learn that it's OK for some people I love to move away from me because of my calling.
I learned to love this work again.
I remembered how incredible it is to facilitate the healing that happens in this space.
I learned to not be afraid of the constant personal development. We never stop learning and it's truly a gift.
I met amazing people who I'm proud to stand and work alongside.
Practically, I work from home, make a beautiful difference to people in a high impact way, and I earn a living which I am incredibly grateful for.
I choose my hours and get to watch my son grow up and hang out with Saxon, our staffy, and Dave, when he's home. (Still working on fitting in the horses, but I'll get there!!)
Now, I'm being poked to embrace my whole journey. Nothing has been by chance, and it's my calling now to help people who are dealing with the same blockages I was dealing with, and to help them step into their own space, with their own business, to be counted in their own right and to do it faster with less looping!
We are never just here to be a support act for someone else, but regardless of what our journey is, we have to give ourselves permission to pursue a calling, and a community to stand alongside.
If this sounds like something you have been looking for, get in touch and let's have a chat. Time to shine.